đź–¤ The Narcissist’s Favorite Weapon: Your Past Mistakes
Let’s talk about one of the narcissist’s most insidious tools of control your past. Not their past. Not their behavior. Just yours. They take your old wounds, your regrets, your lowest moments, and twist them into shackles to keep you bound to their version of the story. They’ll smile as they do it, too like […]
When Boundaries Become Weapons: How Narcissists Use “Boundaries” to Silence and Control Their Scapegoats
In healthy relationships, boundaries are sacred. They help us communicate our needs, protect our emotional well-being, and foster mutual respect. But in narcissistic dynamics especially where a scapegoat has been identified boundaries are often weaponized, not honored. For narcissists, the term “boundaries” doesn’t represent respect or self-care. Instead, it becomes a mask. A justification. A […]