When Love Costs Too Much: How Narcissists Use Coercive Control and Financial Abuse to Trap Their Partners

When we talk about domestic abuse, most people picture physical violence. But some of the most devastating forms of abuse never leave a bruise. They hide behind bank statements, control disguised as “concern,” and a slow erosion of independence masked as “protection.” If you’ve ever felt like your partner was managing your money more than […]
“Back to Square One”: The Narcissist’s Favorite Manipulation Line When You Stop Playing Their Game

If you’ve ever stood your ground in a relationship with a narcissist, you’ve likely heard this phrase:“I’m back to square one with you.” It might sound harmless. Maybe even logical. But make no mistake – this is not an innocent comment. It’s a manipulation tactic. A frustrated narcissist’s way of saying: You stopped complying. You […]
When Boundaries Become Weapons: How Narcissists Use “Boundaries” to Silence and Control Their Scapegoats

In healthy relationships, boundaries are sacred. They help us communicate our needs, protect our emotional well-being, and foster mutual respect. But in narcissistic dynamics especially where a scapegoat has been identified boundaries are often weaponized, not honored. For narcissists, the term “boundaries” doesn’t represent respect or self-care. Instead, it becomes a mask. A justification. A […]