They Don’t Want Connection – They Want Control: The Subtle Manipulation Behind a Narcissist’s Promises
Have you ever opened your heart, spoken your truth, and told someone you love that you feel disconnected—only to have them respond with something that sounds empathetic, but still leaves you feeling hollow? Something like: “I’ll look for ways for you to feel more connected to me.” At first glance, that sounds kind. Thoughtful even. […]
I Didn’t Consent to the Abuse: A Survivor’s Journey Through Reactive Abuse, Mislabeling, and the Truth About Healing.
For those of us who have survived a lifetime of narcissistic abuse, the journey to healing isn’t a straight line. It’s a spiral – through pain, through truth, through guilt, through the heavy fog of confusion and shame, and sometimes… through the heartbreaking judgments of those we love most. I am a survivor of long-term […]
The One Thing Narcissists Can’t Fake – And Why That Makes Them So Dangerous
Let’s just get to the point:The number one thing a narcissist cannot fake no matter how convincing they seem is genuine empathy. Sure, they can act empathetic. They can cry on cue. Say all the right things. Hold your hand at the exact moment you need comfort. But here’s the cold truth: it’s all a […]
When the Victim Looks Like the Narcissist: The Ultimate Gaslighting Trap
One of the most insidious things about narcissistic abuse is how it flips the script not just in the eyes of the narcissist, but in the eyes of everyone else, too. You can spend years walking on eggshells, trying to keep the peace, giving second chances, and staying quiet to “keep things from getting worse.” […]